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KONSELING RELIGI
ISSN : 19077238     EISSN : 24772100     DOI : http://dx.doi.org/10.21043/kr
KONSELING RELIGI Jurnal Bimbingan Konseling Islam(ISSN 1907-7238; E-ISSN 2477-2100) accredited B Ministry of Research, Technology and Higher Education No. 36a / E / KPT / 2016 dated 23 May 2016, is an academic journal that emphasizes on actual issues related to Islamic guidance and counseling. Journal of Counseling Religi Journal of Islamic Counseling Guidance is published twice a year (once every six months, issued in June and December) by the Program Studi Bimbingan Konseling Islam Fakultas Dakwah dan Komunikasi Islam Institut Agama Islam Negeri (IAIN) Kudus. SK ISSN was published on July 31, 2006 and is valid since the first Journal of Vol.1, No 1, June 2010. The editors receive contributions from experts to submit their thoughts related to da'wah, guidance, counseling.
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The Hoping Thinking Skill Model for Parents in Islamic Counseling Through Experiential Learning to Improve Children's Optimistic Attitude Azmi, Khilman Rofi'
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 10, No 1 (2019): June 2019
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v10i1.5591

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The dynamics of rapid development in Islamic counseling are characterized by various applicable research results. One of its forms is the development of training aimed at parents in order to strengthen the parenting method in order to foster an optimistic attitude towards children in accordance with Islamic rules. Hoping is one component in mind skills that can be trained to create positive short-term and long-term positiveexpectations so that children become more optimistic, especially in theface of failure.The development procedure used in this study was adapted from Borg & Gall which included three steps: (1) Phase I namely preparation, including needs assessment, literature study, determining the purpose of development and preparing the necessary materials; (2) Phase II, namely implementation, includes drafting products; and (3) Phase III, namely trials, including expert tests, prospective user trials and small group tests. Analysis of product validity test using descriptive statistical analysis.The product validity test results consists of expert tests (material experts and media experts), prospective user (instructor / parent) test, and small group test by trainees (seven parents and their children) have met the acceptance criteria with three aspects, namely aspects accuracy (score) scores 87% utility (score) 94%, and compatibility (compatibility) with a score of 88%. So that the overall average result is 89.6% in the "very good" category.
Career Guidance and The Policy in Preparing of The Future of The Child Development(Research at Sukamiskin Institute of Special Coaching in Bandung West Java Indonesia) Chodijah, Siti; T., Muslih
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 10, No 1 (2019): June 2019
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v10i1.5285

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The purpose of this study are: First, to know the types of guidanceprants in Institutions Special Coaching Children Bandung. Second, to know the techniques of career guidance at the Institute of Special Education Children Bandung. Third, to find out the results of career guidance at the Institute of Child Development Special Bandung. This research uses descriptive method with qualitative approach, by collecting data and information through interview method, observation, documentation, which then analyzed by writer by way of describing all information received from informant with the required data. Then the authors conclude the information to answer the purpose of research. The career guidance at the Bandung Child Development Institution is in line with the career guidance goals set forth by Salahudin that the goals of career guidance are self-understanding, knowledge of the world of work, positive attitude toward the world of work, and the ability to plan for the future. The results show that career guidance held at LPKA helps students to plan and prepare for their future according to the goals of such career guidance through various types and techniques of career guidance.
The Role of Spiritual Approach in Family Parenting: A Study of Lecturers at Institut Agama Islam Negeri Kudus Wahyuningsih, Sri
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 10, No 1 (2019): June 2019
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v10i1.4162

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The number of hoax news, hate speeches, and acts of violence that are viral on social media can disrupt the physical, emotional and psychological development of children. This article mainly describes the role of spiritual approach in family parenting to children. This study uses a descriptive qualitative research method. The research subject is lecturers at IAIN Kudus. In-depth interviews were conducted to explore and collect data. The result denotes that family parenting had impacts on character, emotional, psychology, and physical development of children. The spiritual approach can be implemented in family parenting through several ways including the habituation of positive values and characters, role models, commitment and consistency from parents, positive communication between parents and children. Besides, parents can support and get involved in children’s activities through positive ways such as approximation, approval, and positive expression of parents towards children. Through the spiritual approach, children will be able to develop optimally both in the intellectual aspect (IQ) and emotional aspects (EQ).
Parenting Parents with The Islamic Counseling Approac Marhamah, Marhamah
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 10, No 1 (2019): June 2019
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v10i1.3792

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This paper aims to determine parenting parents with an Islamic counseling approach. A library study method was used to review documentation in the form of books, journals, and other relevant articles. The results of the study showed that parents were the first and foremost places of education that had a major influence on children's personality development. In carrying out parenting activities there were three parenting styles, namely authoritative, authoritarian and permissive, each of which had an important contribution in establishing a child's personality. Guidance and counseling in Islam was a process of giving assistance to individuals to re-realize their existence as beings (creations) of Allah who should live according to Allah's provisions and instructions. Parenting with an Islamic counseling approach was not just about solving children's problems but also so that children could achieve safety and happiness in the world and in the hereafter. Parenting with the Islamic counseling approach used exemplary and habituation methods.
Marriage Counseling as an Effort to Build a Sakinah Family: Model of Fostering and Mentoring for Sakinah Families in Demak Regency Kasdi, Abdurrohman
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 10, No 1 (2019): June 2019
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v10i1.5500

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This article examines the model of fostering and mentoring sakinah families in Demak Regency by marriage counseling. The method used qualitative with a phenomenological approach and psychoanalytic approach. The aim of this approach is to research the meaning of essential things about marriage counseling in forming a sakinah family, then to relate to a model of family fostering and mentoring for sakinah families in Demak Regency. The research shows that: first, to realize a sakinah family, marriage counseling focus in psychology and syaria. Second, marriage counseling as a process of giving assistance to individuals so that in carrying out marriage and married life can be in harmony with the provisions and instructions of Allah. Third, there was a decline in divorce rates in the Demak Regency area. Data decreasing by 13%, from 19% in 2016 to 6% in 2017. The decline in divorce rates in Demak Regency is inseparable from the guidance and assistance carried out by Islamic Religious Counselors who collaborate with cross-sectoral agencies in providing counseling for marriage to husband and wife couple in Demak Regency to be fostered by sakinah family.
Islamic Counseling to Improve Quality of Parenting Pattern Saifuddin, Ahmad
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 10, No 1 (2019): June 2019
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v10i1.3852

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So many problems that occur in children and adolescents, one of which is the increased juvenile delinquency. One of the factors of the problem is the low quality of care or parenting. This article aims to discuss the role of Islamic counseling in improving the quality of care pattern, using qualitative approach then analyze it with literature study method. As a result, parents still have poor parenting skills. In addition, religious knowledge also plays an important role in the practice of parenting. Therefore, Islamic counseling becomes a solution to overcome the problem of parenting. On the one side, Islamic counseling has a role to improve parenting skills. On the other side, Islamic counseling plays a role in improving the ability of parents to internalize religious values in themselves and children. This roles can do with explain religion and parenting concept use counseling and psychology paradigm. There is integration between them.
Islamic Psychospiritual Counseling in Preventing Deviant Sexual Behavior Nurjannah, Nurjannah
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 10, No 1 (2019): June 2019
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v10i1.5501

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Guidelines for Islamic Psychospiritual Conseling on Prevention of Deviant Sexual Behavior. Despite existence of religious inscriptions and warnings about the dangers and consequences of sexual irregularities,the practice of deviant sexual behavior such as pedophilia, rape, sexual harassment, and LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender) remains rampant. Not to mention, cases of sexual deviations in adolescents have led to unwanted circumstances like premarital pregnancy. This study’s question relates towhat kind of sexuality counseling guidance techniques that a Muslim counselor can develop to prevent the occurrence of sexual deviations specifically. In order to answer this question, there is a need for an in-depth study of Islamic teachings originating from the Qur’an, sunnah, Jurisprudence or fiqh, guidance on Islamic counseling, psychology, and counseling and psychotherapy psychology, supplemented by positive legal regulations and the research journals’ results related to the problem of sexuality deviation. This study was carried out in-depth using content analysis, with a psychospiritual approach to Islamic counseling.This study concludes that the subject of deviant sex is due to lack of knowledge about its dangers, lack of religion, and lack of control skills for lust. Islamicpsychospiritual counseling with bibliotherapy techniques followed by creating cognitive maps confirms anti-sex deviant intentions, ended with cognitive therapy using techniques of cognitive restructuring, though stopping and letting gorelaxation. It is predicted to be effective in helping subjects manage lust so that they avoid deviant sexual behavior. This conclusion is still hypothetical which needs to be followed by experiments to be reliable and this caneventually be used as an Islamic psychospiritual counseling guidance technique to overcome sexual deviation.
Religious Guidance and Counseling For Listeners of Dangdut Radio in Jakarta Indonesia Arbi, Armawati
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 10, No 1 (2019): June 2019
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v10i1.4483

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Religious counselors in current days seldom come forward in mass media, especially in radio. They prefer to introduce their selves as Islamic preacher. Furthermore, Islamic counselor is rarely as program director and producer in radio. This article offers what is very significant roles and functions of Islamic counselor (IC) on air program and off-air program in order families look for Islamic counseling. This research methods using observation, text analysis on record cassette, and script of fragment, deep interview on  Fattahuddin as Islamic Counselor, and literature studies. Data were analyzed by constructivism paradigm. It was conducted by dialect among subjective reality, symbolic reality, and objective reality through externalization, objectivities, and internalization. The results of research reveal two findings: 1). Fatahuddin is religious guidance and counseling in Daerah Khusus Ibukota (DKI) Jakarta, religious affairs. He had used radio schema to construct family problems in Jakarta Dangdut radio through 6 stages.2). He had framed the concepts of Sakinah Family through format of Dialog Listeners and Broadcasters by using fragments 1 and 2, script of cases and solutions.
Circumflex Model of Family Therapy: Initiating Its Application on Parenting Mistakes to Child Early Age Fa'atin, Salmah; Adlina, Atika Ulfia
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 10, No 1 (2019): June 2019
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v10i1.5533

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The golden age in the development of early childhood requires more attention amid the emergence of the phenomenon of shifting family functions in the millennial era. Father's function and mothers who experience shifts are thought to have the potential for emergence of parenting problems.  The golden age is in need of good parenting, because an error of parenting during this period a significant impact on adulthood. This requires family therapy that is good and feasible to be used in intervening in cases of parenting errors with early childhood. This article aims to describe the theory of family therapy in the circumflex model popularized by Olson, analyzing and initiating its application in cases of parenting errors in early childhood. The idea of applying the therapy is complemented by the design of the stages and forms of therapy. The results of the study show that theoretically it is possible to apply circumcision family model therapy in cases of early childhood parenting errors, because early childhood leads to an internal problem three important dimensions in the circuit model to create a healthy and balanced family, namely the dimensions of closeness, adaptability or flexibility and family communication. The therapeutic design for families who experience parenting errors in early childhood is arranged in stages, stages or sessions of one to ten.
Methods of Ruqyah, Hypnotherapy, and Spiritual: Strategy in Handling Family Problems Mushoffa, Wadhifatul; Wahidin, Darto
KONSELING RELIGI Vol 10, No 1 (2019): June 2019
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Show Abstract | Download Original | Original Source | Check in Google Scholar | DOI: 10.21043/kr.v10i1.4913

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In human life, there will never be a problem and a test of life, including family problems. To overcome the problem and the test of life, humans certainly need strength and fortitude to pass it. Hypnotherapy and Spiritual Therapy as an Islamic consulting institution that handles life problems, including dealing with family life problems by using the unique ruqyah, hypnotherapy, and spiritual methods. On the basis of this uniqueness, this research is considered important. The purpose of this research is to find out ruqyah, hypnotherapy, and spiritual methods in dealing with family problems. This study was analyzed using sufism theory. The method used in this study uses a qualitative approach, with the technique of collecting data through interviews. The results of this study found that the focus of consultation was handled in terms of psychology, the pattern of its handling with consultations, psychological approaches, even spiritual, and methods used by combining ruqyah, hypnotherapy, and spiritual. All methods used lead to Islamic methods based on the Qur'an in dealing with family problems.

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